How to Meditate – Part 1
Posted: September 10, 2011 Filed under: Advice, Meditation Leave a comment »Lately, I have received a lot of messages asking for tips on how to start meditating. I figured I’d go forth and elaborate as much as I can to aid you guys with meditating. For me, meditation is one of the most divine sources. It helps connect us with our True Self and with All Beings. Meditating is about letting go of your ego, those thoughts that hide in the corners of your mind and lead you into unconsciousness. There are many reasons people meditate. The demands of modern life over-work and stress us, and we become swirled with negative energy. Perhaps we lose focus on the importance of life and would like to reconnect ourselves. For whatever reason you want to learn how to meditate, this is your guide into silence.
Just Be
Let me start off with the simplest of responses. Just do it! Jump into it. If you think about meditation and the how to, how not to – you have already lost the meaning of meditating. Learn to quiet your mind. If this is your first time, it may be difficult. With so many thoughts running through your mind since as long as you can remember, your head is rarely quiet and you aren’t used to it. While meditating, do not worry or be anxious about still having thoughts. It is normal. The more you meditate, the more you can connect with yourself.

Start off, by finding a relaxing environment. You can meditate outside, in your living room, by a waterfall, or in you bedroom. Turn off all electronics or anything noisy that could distract you. You can use music to guide you. Some examples are – 1, 2, 3. Then, find a comfortable seating position. Normally, I create a small little area on my floor for a pillow and light a candle or incense. Once you have your little meditation niche all set, sit the way you feel comfort. I have found it to be the most comfortable when sitting cross-legged, back straight, and my hands placed (palm up) on my knees (also known as the lotus position). Once you have found your seating position, it is time to be still.
Breathing Techniques
Recognizing your breath, is the easiest and most beautiful way to guide your meditation. This is something you can do at any time, any where when you are feeling like your ego is taking a hold of you lest it be anger, stress, guilt, depression – recognizing your breath can bring you back to yourself without letting go of the present moment. What we want to accomplish is making our mind more lucid, more pure, and more clear which means letting go of our distractions.
Allow yourself to breathe naturally, but do not control your breath, do not judge your breath. Follow it, feel its flow throughout your entirety. Feel it swirl around your brain matter, all the way down to your feet. The sensation of breathing is used to focus on our breathe and allow everything else to be excluded. There is so much talking in your mind and we’d like to eventually have it fade away.
Using a Mantra
Om Mani Padme Hum
Reciting a mantra is another effective way to aid your concentration. A mantra is the repetition of a sacred word or phrase. You can repeat this in your head or using your voice. Whichever way you find comfortable. The two most popular are AUM and Om Mani Padme Hum (ohm mah nee pahd may hum). You can create your own or find various mantras online. This allows you to focus on one thought and concentrating becomes easier.
Silence Your Mind
Once you are used to focusing on a single thing, you can reach the next stage of no thought. This is where you clear your mind completely and fill yourself with nothing but pure consciousness. Watch your thoughts and emotions but do not become them. If a thought pops up, make a conscious decision to let go of it. With practice, you will realize you are allowed to allow and reject thoughts and they do not have to stay with you. Do not judge your thoughts, do not think of them as good or bad, as positive as negative. Separate your thoughts from your self which is something far beyond your thoughts. Realize, you are not your thoughts, you cannot become what your thoughts want you to become. This is why silence and meditation is a healthy practice and brings us into the light rather than be covered by the darkness of our thoughts, of our ego. Do not find discouragement if you cannot reach a silent mind straight away. Practice, if the first day, you do not attain a silent mind, try a breathing or mantra exercise and then go about your business. In your next meditation, try to reach a silent mind once again. When it comes, it will come naturally and exquisitely.
We have been conditioned with our ego, therefore meaning negative thoughts are what is natural to use and clearing them away is no longer an easy task. With time, perseverance, and practice, the love, light and silence of meditation will begin to unfold and you shall feel an air of lightness within you.
In other news..
This has become quite long and I know some of us have attention spans of a fly and to honor those people, I’m breaking this up with several posts. This post is in regards to the basics of meditating to get you started. I’ll try to go more in depth in my later posts with different techniques, etc and I hope you find these tips to be useful. These are the techniques I used when I first began to meditate and found them to be undeniably helpful. Perhaps you’ll even develop a better method of your own!
Feel free to share your tips, thoughts, and ideas with me! If this has helped you, let me know. If you’d like to hear more, let me know. Leave a comment, share your thoughts with me.
Sending you all my love,
Wolf Marie
P.S. Reading this book may help guide you as well!
Book Review: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Posted: August 30, 2011 Filed under: Book Review, Spiritual Enlightenment Leave a comment »After trying to find anything I could scattered across the Web on The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (which was recommended by this fellow), I came across a bunch of excerpts, quotes, and reviews. While reading, I immediately felt brilliant energy swirling much deeper than my veins, so I finally ventured out into the real world to find it. Normally, I go to thrift stores, especially Goodwill since their selection of books is quite large at a decent price, but instead, I went off to Barnes and Noble. Eyes glazing over hundreds of different colored bindings, of all different sizes, my eyes peeled over to The Power of Now, I bought it, and immediately dove into the book.

I’m assuming that the people who pick up this book are people who are searching for their spiritual side, people who want to learn more about their spiritual enlightenment, or people who are simply curious on the topic of spirituality. Personally, I’m reading it as an aid to assist the discovery of my spiritual (or True) Self and to vibrate on higher frequencies. Also, I have a tendency to feed my ego which causes destruction, overpower, greed, jealousy, and overall – negativity.
With that being said, let me tell you a little bit about the book. It’s a well-structured guide, one that actually guides you through explanations with grace, and doesn’t leave you hanging with questions. The message it sends is simple – you must refocus yourself into the Now (the present) rather than living in the past and the future. By living in the now, you release all negative energy and you reconnect with happiness, bliss and love.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have. Make the NOW the primary focus of your life.”
If you are searching for the Truth, I will say, do not go to this book to find it. You must understand that the Truth is already within you, and no one can get you there except yourself. If you are looking to see where your Truth lies and what steps and understandings you can take to get there, I suggest you read this book with an open mind and an open heart. You should also understand that there are only perspectives. Some words might ring Truth to you and others might not. Make sure you do not go in one-sided or with one perspective.
Furthermore, Tolle sets up his book in an easy-to-read fashion. He sets his book in an FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) structure, something you have all seen on various websites, even brochures and magazines have them. I found this quite useful during the reading. Also, he sets up indications where he thinks you should sit back, look upon what he said, make your own judgements, meditate on his words, be in silence and absorb everything and he insists, even if those indications aren’t present, you do it once you feel necessary.
Tolle emphasizes that real joy comes from within, from being in the present moment and truly embracing that which is your presence. We all wear masks – whether it be at work, at school, at home, and even when we are left alone we wear a mask – the ego. The ego feeds off your suffering, depression, anxiety, all negative energy. He also explains the pain-body. To clarify this phenomenon, here is a quote from part of the book -
“The pain-body wants to survive, just like every other entity in existence, and it can only survive if it gets you to unconsciously identify with it. It can then rise up, take you over, “become you,” and live through you. It needs to get its “food” through you. It will feed on any experience that resonates with its own kind of energy, anything that creates further pain in whatever form: anger, destructiveness, hatred, grief, emotional drama, violence, and even illness. So the pain-body, when it has taken you over, will create a situation in your life that reflects back its own energy frequency for it to feed on. Pain can only feed on pain. Pain cannot feed on joy. It finds it quite indigestible.”
The pain-body comes from past experiences, the continuous life-span of negative energy until you find your ability to let it go, your realization, your enlightenment. When you know you are the reason for your own suffering, no blame, person, or material possession will bring you into peace or happiness.
If you are having relationship problems, he covers this as well, quickly and efficiently with what makes sense. Explaining love/hate relationships and how the ego enjoys every moment of it. Feel like the both of you are spiraling downwards? Arguments and back to ‘loving’ and a cycle of anger and aggression, then sensitivity and compassion. He explains how to rid yourself of these, how to stay conscious in those moments rather than let yourself be taken a hold of like a leech that feeds on your blood. With teachings of how to listen and actually listen to your partner, you can take his words with a grain a salt and put his teachings to the test. If you are looking for an enlightened relationship with your current partner, or a more ‘stable’ relationship, he helps you on how to achieve happiness with your loved one where it is beneficial to both of you, and opens up a whole new world of love.
After reading a decent amount of reviews, there were mentions of how it’s in your face, grabby, and aggressive at times. I must admit, I can see where they are coming from. He speaks with such eloquence and such purity where it could seem as ‘in your face’ but further on, Tolle states that you should put his teachings to the test and not just take his word for it. It is best to realize you are reading printed words (unless you are listening to it on audio), therefore you feel his words and they become how you perceive them. Without negative connotation, you see the love throughout his words and his desire to help you root yourself, with yourself.
If I were stranded on a deserted island, with only one book in my possession, it would be The Power of Now (either that or Harry Potter of course!). Anytime you feel like you are losing control lest it be anger, jealousy, hate, anxiety, or sadness – pick this book up, open up to a random page, start reading, and you’ll already feel the divine energy inside and around you!

I could write continuously about this book, I can already feel words forming from the tips of my fingers, and inspiration I could throw at you to read this book but I will simply state that if you are feeling uneasy, anxious, depressed, having any sort of negative energy in your life – pick this book up straight away! Genuine, refreshing, pragmatic, unselfish, and written with pure grace, I would really like to encourage you to give the book a chance. Pick it up, begin reading it, let the words flow into you, listen to the words and the silence beneath the words, read it with an open mind. Do not read with your analytical mind, read with more depth, with your Self, with your feelings, and most importantly, read it with love.
Live in the moment – completely, fearlessly, lovingly.
Personal Self vs Society, Who is To Blame?
Posted: August 21, 2011 Filed under: News, Society 2 Comments »It’s around 10:15pm on a Friday night, my over-the-shoulder Beatles shirt is paired with plain skinny jeans, a fake elephant tusk necklace (please leave their tusks alone), and black high-heeled boots and skimming through pages of Tumblr that I had missed out on while getting ready (surprising though, i never look ‘fancy’ but sometimes I have bursts of random fashion inspiration other than pajama shorts and a t-shirt.)
Back to the point of writing this, while skimming through my Tumblr dashboard, I came across a picture – a blue wall, the color of a cloudless summer day, spray-painted with the words “I Blame Society” in dark blue, and i must admit, the color contrast is well-coordinated. Curiosity and opinions formed in brain waves of turquoise, yellow, and red.
Which society is the finger being pointed at? Or is the finger being pointed at the human race as a whole? I’m presuming the graffiti “artist” who wrote this, is either a primate or a human. For all intensive purposes, let’s go about saying they are a human (I haven’t really known many primates who spray-paint silly sayings, actually I haven’t known many primates at all). Also, let’s say they are pointing the finger at the human race as a whole, wouldn’t that make this person a part of the society they are blaming? Perhaps I am looking too much into this simple, three word, thirteen lettered, verb-noun, structured sentence but people out there do actually and completely blame society in a way, that totally excludes themselves.
We can sit and blame society on the problems of today, but does this make you aware or less aware of the part you play in society? If you are sitting there blaming society, you are not sitting there blaming yourself (obvious, of course) which is ultimately, if anyone, the only person you can blame.
Society, collectively, sucks.
The reason for this? Because we keep blaming society! Society this, society that. But are you, or we, even doing anything to change that? Society sucks because we blame other members of society instead of standing up, gathering groups, raising awareness, etc. Before we proceed on, please don’t think I am pointing the finger at all of you, or even any of you currently reading this, it changes from person to person – some who are doing things, some who aren’t, and I can’t say I am doing enough on my part, either.
When asked what they thought about the phrase “I Blame Society”, my Tumblr followers (friends, you could say) responded with this:

pigcharmer said: Blame/fault, justice/injustice, money/currency and Superman/Batman do not exist. They are concepts that only have relevance when we let them exist as ideas.

anythingispossiblehere said: no blames on anyone. only self-awareness. the clue to the end of suffering is ONLY IN TIME.

travelingnaked said: taking the body for what it rightfully is- natural. It’s our own fault for letting ourselves going along with society. Our race doesn’t have the fearlessness to be able to think apart from what they’ve been brought up to know. That’s my opinion.

thepiratesheart said: I think Society can be blamed for some things with some people but not everything and not for everyone. It all depends on the situation and a persons thought process.

walkingchaos said: While our ‘society’ can be held accountable for all the shit that occurs inour world, the only one you should blame is yourself. Every individual has the ability, strength, and power to be the change. Don’t blame society for what you don’t like, blame yourself for not setting out to fix it.
At this point in time, it is blatantly obvious society is not going to pull itself together. Actually, with the newly founded London Riots, we are tearing ourselves apart. To be honest, government seems to be tearing everything apart. Taking every inch of whatever they can get their greedy little, green-thumbed, hands on.
Problems have been surfacing for decades and decades leading us here. But time is an illusion so what happened in the past, what the media has drilled into our heads at an earlier time, is all irrelevant. The time is Now. To make a change, if you want a change, it needs to happen now rather than blaming society, blame yourself. Don’t even blame yourself, blame no one. Or blame government, since they are the emperors of our life which is in fact, an illusion. You are the creator of the life you are living. If you are content and appealed by the government and think they are doing a brilliant job –
Check out this article on the 15 deadliest corporations
Also this article entitled “It’s Not Just News Corp: Why Telecommunications Companies in the US May Be Spying On You Every Day
This part 1 of 7 video, “What In The World Are They Spraying?”
A video of our possible candidate for Presidency dodging questions
20 Facts About U.S. Inequality That Everyone Should Know
To see there is hope for humanity: Illusion and Reality Part 1
300 Years of Fossil Fuels in 300 Seconds
Truth is, I could cite endless videos, articles, etc about the government and their “brilliant job”. Even check out Anonymous and their plan of action.
I’m not preaching anarchy this, or anarchy that, which some of you may jump to the conclusion of. The only thing I have ever ‘preached’ (for lack of a better word) is unconditional love in everything and everyone and I have preached awareness and higher consciousness which would profoundly change the world. Actually, it is changing the world. I don’t know how many people on Tumblr I follow that are diving, or have already dived, into this realm, this dimension of unconditional love, for A New Earth. Even in the ‘real’ world, I have seen a few sprout up. Various websites, blogs, articles, videos – dedicated to light and love. How wonderful is that?
You don’t have to believe in a single thing I say, you don’t have to agree with a single thing I say, scattered thoughts surround these written words, perhaps lacking eloquence, perhaps too many words for you to muster, perhaps things you have already known, perhaps I annoyed you, but if you have gotten to this point, I am prone to believe you have read this far and for that I thank you.
Posted: August 20, 2011 Filed under: Uncategorized Leave a comment »
Lack of communication frustrates me. Is it wrong for me to enjoy talking and words? Words can only say so much, but it’s the underlying feeling that is important. Don’t get me wrong, silence is beautiful, wonderful, divine, lovely, and says so much. Perhaps, says the most.
But it is also nice to share words, to talk (even in writing). If you mix energy with talking, you are releasing the negative vibes and binds that are restraining you. Put them together and you really do get a load off your chest and you open a new gateway towards love and happiness, bliss and peace.
I just want to go to a nice cafe, sip on a cup of coffee and talk of ideas, dreams, plans, life and love. I want to read, and write, and share with the person (which of course, would be Lion) across from me. I want to talk about the problems of the day, of the week, and talk about them as a form of accepting or even realizing, and perhaps letting go. No attachments or judgements, just feelings and words and beautiful energy swirling around.
Or even just a cup of coffee and eyes locked and doodles on napkins. Or highlighting pages in books. Sharing quotes, passages we enjoy. Talking about ways to make the Earth better and cars that don’t. And hand-holding, or eye-holding and just Being in silence or in words, in a nice little cafe with a cup of coffee (or tea!)
